tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882537619389851611.post3038061618341462871..comments2023-11-03T05:09:47.246-07:00Comments on Ramblings ~: Seeing RedFranhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14198689517878201943noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882537619389851611.post-6052003796503074692009-09-02T20:18:14.924-07:002009-09-02T20:18:14.924-07:00Hi BE ~ A lesson for sure, and I hope one Mr. Brow...Hi BE ~ A lesson for sure, and I hope one Mr. Brown learns. If you don't get help, this *baggage* follows you wherever you go. <br /><br /><br />DK ~ I think initially, the enabler is confused by the mixed messages- intense love, turning to hate & violence. People want to be forgiving & want to believe it will never happen again....<br />but then it does. Usually in exponential escalations. <br /><br />I found this Talk show interview horrifying. <br />He does not remember & he does not think or believe he was responsible for her bruises?<br />Choking a person is very out of control. <br />If he thinks he will get it together by drinking at clubs, he is so very wrong. <br />I fear we will see him in the headlines for more of the same , down the road, unless he gets serious help & takes it seriously.Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14198689517878201943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882537619389851611.post-13438871501176282752009-09-02T18:51:02.863-07:002009-09-02T18:51:02.863-07:00It is not love. It is dominance and aggression. ...It is not love. It is dominance and aggression. And I hate to say it, but I've seen a certain amount of enabling on the victims parts, too. I'm not saying they like it, but THEY also need much counseling to overcome being attracted to these "types".D.K. Raedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01451065603615752038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882537619389851611.post-69593396965488961672009-09-02T11:10:42.397-07:002009-09-02T11:10:42.397-07:00Great education on D.V. here, Fran. Super job. I t...Great education on D.V. here, Fran. Super job. I think that the public really does not understand the dynamic. This high profile incident gives us a good "teaching" opportunity.Billie Greenwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08214111146566550821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882537619389851611.post-4448498866324703332009-09-01T20:36:31.474-07:002009-09-01T20:36:31.474-07:00Lib~ Me too.
Joy~ I really do believe there is s...Lib~ Me too. <br /><br />Joy~ I really do believe there is such a level of rage that one *sees red*... that is they lose control to the point they really don't know what they are doing- a total rage. <br /><br />the fact Chris Brown went out drinking @ clubs after his trial, demonstrates he really does not<br />quite get it. <br />People with such rage really do need counseling & therapy, to learn about anger management, skills on how to deescalate, <br />and to learn crossing the line to physical abuse is never OK. <br /><br />He went from a pre grammy party, to afterwards choking & beating his then girlfriend. He was able to control his anger in the public eye, but lost it in a private setting?<br /><br />I'm just so glad she had followed through with pressing charges, and cutting off the "relationship". Not OK. <br /><br />For him to get on a talk show saying he does not remember & what he did is not who he is....big red flags. <br /><br />He needs to remember - to learn from it, and get long term help. <br />Wearing a baby blue bow tie on a talk show appearance is not going to get it.Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14198689517878201943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882537619389851611.post-54922747278482325562009-09-01T13:02:20.015-07:002009-09-01T13:02:20.015-07:00I think Chris Brown is insane. Or maybe he has a ...I think Chris Brown is insane. Or maybe he has a multiple personalities.Joy Reedhttp://vacationrentalsad.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882537619389851611.post-36462948464789152882009-09-01T10:01:14.329-07:002009-09-01T10:01:14.329-07:00BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT! NO THANK YOU!
Great po...BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT! NO THANK YOU!<br /><br />Great post here btw.Life As I Know It Nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03733963455243806298noreply@blogger.com